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Christmas Traditions

Christmas traditions. Family traditions. Fun family traditions to start. In this video Barry and Tammy discuss some simple and fun family traditions for Christmas. We’re not suggesting you use our Christmas traditions but that you have and add to your Christmas traditions. Hopefully, this video will give you simple practical resources to help you be a happier and healthier family,…

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Relationship Goals – Dreams vs Expectations

How to Achieve relationship goals. Dreams vs expectations. Desires vs reality. Everyone wants a good relationship but expect too much. Why marriages fail. In this video Barry & Tammy discuss what it means to have relationship goals. How to keep love strong. Keep dreams, desires and wishes but beware of moving them to the expectations box. Expectations can kill a…

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Dreams vs Expectations – The Control Game

How to Achieve relationship goals. It comes down to control for many. Dreams vs expectations. Desires vs reality. Everyone wants a good relationship but expect too much. Why marriages fail. In this video Barry & Tammy discuss what it means to have relationship goals. How to avoid control games. Control issues. How to keep love strong. Keep dreams, desires and…

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Dreams vs Expectations – The Compromise Game

Marriage Tips Dreams vs Expectations – The Compromise Game. All marriages compromise, but it’s not to be a 50/50 thing. It’s 100/100 thing. We all come with dreams, desires and wishes, but when those move to expectations, the relationship changes. Compromise game is not the answer. In this video, Barry & Tammy discuss the Compromise Game and that marriage is…

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Dreams Vs Expectations – Contract Vs Covenant

In this video, Barry & Tammy discuss the Covenant vs Contract Marriage. A contract is 50/50 but a covenant is 100/100. We are in control of our covenant commitment to our spouse. And they need Jesus as the leader to make it all work properly. 👍 Make sure to like, share, comment and subscribe. Help us spread the word and…

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Romance and Intimacy -Missing In Contract Marraige

Barry and Tammy Smith talk about the challenge of having Dreams, Desires and Wishes vs Expectations in a marriage. The difference between a contract marriage and covenant marriage. It’s imperative to focus on your dreams, desires and wishes instead of expectations. Once we move dreams into expectations, the dynamic of a relationship instantly changes. Our goal is to keep it…

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